my cousin, all of 20 years old, got a wedding proposal. And her mom has already consented to it – without asking her. And it looks like quite a few others in the family are also happy with this proposal.
a few months back, during another cousin’s wedding, this cousin had got another proposal – from a distant relative. and my grandmom had consented to it. so did my aunt and uncle. and a few other relatives. immense pressure was put on my cousin to accept and she’d started crying. finally my parents had to step in and resolve the mess and bail her out.
thankfully my mom has told me that she’ll step in only if i fail to find someone by myself…